I got back in touch this past week with a long-time friend (we'll call him "J" in this piece) from the technology industry, who admitted he was "bored" being retired for the last 4 years.
Here are my suggestions:
Y Combinator
Makeover
Take up a New Game
Golf
- It's expensive (not an issue for J)
- It's time-consuming (maybe just what one wants?)
- You get "variable reinforcement" ... the same stimulus that keeps rats running through mazes
- There's a handicap system that allows differing levels of ability to play together fairly
- It takes years of practice and play to become proficient
- A good book on golf is:
Poker
- no limit and pot-limit
- low fixed limit
Bridge
- are you analytical? (A bonus for techies: there's an intentionally limited communications protocol as part of the game.) J places out of this one, having worked in tech industry for decades.
- are you competitive? If you will hit a tennis ball back and forth across the net for more than a few minutes without keeping score, this game is probably not for you.
- cheap -- only cost is deck of bridge cards (make sure to get bridge cards, not poker cards as you have to keep 13 in your hand for starts)
- sociable -- you play with a partner against at least one other pair
- the pandemic had a negative effect on in-person play; a couple of the local bridge clubs folded
- it takes years to become proficient (for most people)
Try a Non-Standard Charity
Tack Against the Culture
There's also a chapter on vegetable oils that I missed the first time until I saw this discussion on YouTube:
After I saw this, I tossed my (delicious) Costco (canola and/or sunflower oil) potato chips.
My wife and I are now engaged in a lobbying effort to try and persuade a local favorite restaurant to switch from these oils to butter, beef tallow, or one of the other saturated fat oils.
Another thing I think I've learned: carbohydrates in general and fiber in particular are unnecessary to the human diet:
I could be wrong about all of this, but it makes sense to me and the lobbying effort keeps life interesting.